8 Steps to a Perfectly Curated & Strategic Wedding Registry

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Wedding planning is a design-heavy process. Whether it’s tablescapes, bouquets, invitations, lighting, or attire, many couples spend a lot of time designing their weddings. Despite all of this designing energy, there is a design opportunity that many couples miss while planning their weddings --- and that is the wedding registry.

When it comes to the registry, the considerations are endless - which items to include, how many retailers to choose from, should all items be available for online purchasing, what price points should items be in, what do you actually need, the list goes on and on. In this sea of decision making, many couples miss the opportunity to use their registry to design their life together and curate their registry with an aesthetic and story-telling eye.

I believe that a registry is not just a list of stuff -- it's a list of the tools you'll use to build your lives together. Your guests don't just want to buy you a gift -- they want to invest in your future. So, I would encourage you to approach your wedding registry with an eye for design. Not sure how to get started? Read on.

When to Register for Gifts

I would recommend beginning the process of registering for gifts early in the planning process. Especially if you’re throwing an engagement party, you’ll want to have a small list of gifts registered for for those guests who may inquire. If you are not throwing an engagement party, I would recommend having your registry set up by 6 months in advance of your wedding.

How Many Gifts to Register For

As a general rule of thumb, I recommend registering for about 1.25-1.5 gifts per guest. For example, for a guest list of 150 people, I would recommend having between 180 and 225 gifts on your registry. Some guests will opt to give cash or monetary gifts, but when you factor in other events like wedding showers and engagement parties, you’re likely to get a good amount of the registered-for items covered while still leaving guests a good amount of options to choose from.

Where to Register

I recommend registering with 2-3 different retailers/websites. Here are a few tips for choosing where to register:

  • Choose at least one budget-friendly retailer, like Target, Bed Bath + Beyond, or Amazon. These retailers are great for some of the basic and affordable items for your registry, like kitchen tools and some appliances.

  • Choose one mid-range or higher-end retailer, like Crate + Barrel, West Elm, Anthropologie, etc. These retailers are good for some of the higher-end items or items you’ll use more regularly, like dishes, glassware and some other unique or decorative items.

  • Choose at least one retailer where guests can buy gifts in person. It can be tempting to opt for all-online options, but some guests prefer to go to a physical store to purchase a gift, so make sure there is at least one option available for those guests.

  • If what you are primarily in need of is cash, I recommend using a website registry where you can designate what guests’ funds are going towards (like Zola, Honeyfund or Newlywish).

In general, I usually recommend that couples choose one budget-friendly retailer, one mid to high-end retailer, and one retailer that is geared towards something more unique, like a cash registry or a camping registry with REI, a wine registry, or something along those lines.

Price Ranges to Register In

I recommend registering for gifts in each of these categories:

  • $0-50

  • $50-$100

  • $100-$200

  • $200+

If possible, try to provide a good amount of gift options in each of these categories. You may find that you have a larger amount of items in the $0-50 range, since there are a good amount items  you may need that are smaller. That’s OK --- some guests will give you more than one gift in that category.

A note on the $200+ category --- don’t be afraid to put some more expensive items on your registry, like furniture, for example. Some guests may go in on a larger gift together, and some retailers, like Crate and Barrel, will offer discounts on unfulfilled registry items following the wedding.

What to Register For

When you get that scanner in your hand at a store or a mouse in your hand in front of your computer, it can be really tempting to put all sorts of things on your registry without giving it any thought. But that could lead to you overwhelming your registry with items that you don’t really want or need.

I recommend going through a thorough checklist of potential wedding items, marking the items you are interested in, and then prioritizing those items. From there, you can be sure to add (and likely get) the items that mean the most to you to your registry, rather than items that are only mildly of interest to you.

To get you started, I’m offering my Complete Registry Item Checklist for free!

Design Your Registry

Like I said before, your registry is not just a list of stuff --- it’s a list of tools you’ll use to build your future life. The best way to ensure that the items you place on your registry will last for years in your home and your heart is to choose items that speak to you both in style and function.

When I design a registry, I take special care to ensure that the items not only go together, but also fit the couple’s everyday living style. For example, for a couple that lives in a sleek, monochromatic space, I might suggest minimal dishes and ultra-modern flatware. For a couple that lives in bright and eclectic environment, the choices would be different.

Moodboards are a great way to test items together, especially when they come from different retailers. Below is a moodboard I created for a modern couple looking for classic, modern supplies for a dinner party with items sourced from Crate + Barrel, Target and Amazon.

Interested in learning more about my Registry Design offerings? Get in touch!

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Stagger Your Registry

Because weddings are a lot of work, many couples treat their Registry like a task they can cross off their list. While this is true to an extent, I recommend revisiting your registry over time.

Many couples have at least one wedding shower prior to the wedding where guests primarily give gifts from the registry. If you are having one (or two or more), use these events to your advantage!

Once you know the date of the shower(s), set up your registry with some (but not all - maybe 50-75%) of your top-priority items. Limiting the offerings before each shower ensures that you’ll get more of the items you really want. After each shower, add more of the items on your top-priority list, and supplement with your next level of interest items as needed.

Write Thank You Notes

Write thank you notes in a timely fashion --- etiquette dictates that after a wedding, thank you notes should be out within three months. In my opinion, the earlier the better.

Get Started

Once again, here is the link to get my Registry Checklist for yourself. If you are interested in learning more about my Registry Design services, get in touch! I’d love to help you create a well-curated registry.

Real Canvas Wedding: Meghan + Rob

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Meghan and Rob’s wedding was the essence of city-meets-country, east coast-meets-midwest cool. This NYC couple was married in a gorgeous country barn, and fed their guests decadent Milkbar treats for dessert. Modern, metallic linens were combined with wooden chairs, and sleek stoneware plates and gold flatware. This was such a cool, gorgeous day, captured by the incredible Woodnote Photography.

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Planning: Canvas Weddings / Photography: Woodnote Photography / Florals: Alluring Blooms / Venue: The Farm at Dover / Linens: BBJ Linens / Rentals: Tablescapes, Event Essentials / Desserts: Milkbar / Cake: Simma’s Bakery

How I Stopped Hiding & Started Showing Up

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Yesterday, I did something that, for me, is both exciting and incredibly scary: I got my picture taken. In an effort to “show up” a little more in my branding and in my business pages, I partnered with my dear friends and vendor comrades, The Ramsdens, for a “branding” photo shoot.

Wait…Why is that Scary?

I honestly can’t remember a time when seeing myself in photos didn’t cause me some anxiety. One of my first memories involving having my picture taken was in 2nd grade. It was picture day at my dance class, and a classmate made a point of telling me that I looked fat in my costume. Needless to say, that was devastating.

Through high school, college and into adulthood, I almost always avoided being in photos, and when that was not possible, I would move myself to the back of group photos where my body would be obstructed from the lens. Although I have had some great experiences with photos in my life (I love my engagement and wedding photos so, so much), I remember feeling incredibly anxious about being in those photos for weeks and months ahead of time.

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What Changed?

For a long time I was convinced that my fear and anxiety over being in photos had to do with my fear of being seen and judged by other people. But that’s not true --- the reality is, I was hiding from myself. MY gaze was the one I was afraid of, because my self-talk and my interior monologue has been so unkind. And when I say unkind, I mean UNKIND. I would never speak to anyone the way I routinely spoke to myself.

A few months ago it dawned on me that because of my fear of showing up, there really isn’t a great photographic record of my life. If I ever have children, I will not have much evidence to show them proving that I was here, and that I lived, laughed with friends, loved my husband, started a business and made a career for myself in making special, magical moments. So, I decided to stop treating myself like a “before picture” and something that should not be seen, and committed to start showing up, in my life and in photos, just the way I am. Because who I am now is worthy of love and acceptance, not just from others, but from myself.

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Fast forward to today. I took a leap of faith, put myself in the hands of a dear friend and BOMB photographer, and committed to being myself in front of a camera. And, friends, I am so thrilled to be able to say to you that I LOVE these images. I see myself --- happy, comfortable and present.

I owe a debt of gratitude to my friend Caitlin Ramsden, who made me feel so comfortable and special in front of her camera. Her cats and puppy were running around us, which made me SUPER happy, and we chatted and listened to music and she directed me so well and generously through our time together. For any brides reading this who may be camera-shy like me, I cannot recommend The Ramsdens enough for your wedding photography. Thank you, my sweet friend.

I know that my struggle to show up is not over. But I am committed to leaving a record of my life, my work and my loves. Here’s to facing fears, accepting ourselves, and showing up in the world as we are.

Cheers,

Corinne

Real Canvas Wedding: Megan + Bennett

There are so many things to love about Megan & Bennett's wedding: the fact that it took place on the golf course where they got engaged, the pretty flowers by Daffodil Parker, spending the day alongside two of my best pals, Stephen and Stephanie Booth...I could go on for awhile here. All that said, one of my favorite things about this day was that it was truly a family affair. Years ago, Megan's brother married Bennett's sister, so this wedding really solidified these families' already-special bond. All said, this day was a sweet, pretty and fun tribute to the couple's closest friends and family.

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Coordination: Canvas Weddings | Photography: Booth Photographics | Florals: Daffodil Parker

Love Lessons From My Second-Favorite Guy

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This is Rhino, also known as "Rhinoceros/Boo/Crazy-Pants" and that other guy who sleeps in my bed. Rhino is my dog, my buddy, my cuddle-partner and regular source of entertainment. If you've known me longer than five minutes, you probably know that I love him. A lot — like crazy-dog-lady a lot. One of the reasons I love him so much is that he's taught me a lot of important things about love, and showing up for the people you care about. So, here is some love-wisdom, straight from the snuggle monster who shares my house:

Greetings Are Important

No matter how long I've been gone/how long I've left him alone, Rhino is always butt-wiggly excited to see me when I walk in the door to our apartment. He makes coming home sweet --- especially after busy, stressful days. I wish I could channel Rhino's enthusiasm for me into the way I greet my husband when he comes home from work. I imagine our apartment would be a warmer, sweeter place if I made it my consistent business to welcome my husband home with enthusiasm, regardless of the day we've had. 

Remember To Ask

There are several tricks that Rhino does really well. "Sit," "touch" and "shake" are his go-to tricks. However, "lay down" and "roll over" are not his strengths, and I think I know why --- it's because we don't ask him to do those things very often. Every now and again when I revisit "roll over" with him, I'll get frustrated that it takes him several --- or many --- attempts to get it right. But I shouldn't get frustrated with him for getting out of practice with a trick I haven't consistently asked him to do. And, I can't expect Rhino to know what I want him to do if I don't tell him to do it. It's the same in marriage --- how can I expect my husband to know what I want or need if I don't communicate those things to him on a regular basis? Sadly, neither dogs or humans are mind-readers. If we want or need something from them, we have to ask. 

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Trust Is Key — And It’s Earned

I remember the first few weeks that we had Rhino after we adopted him. He was a little unsure of us and a little timid. He would pee in the house frequently, and not because he wasn't house-broken, but because he didn't know if he could count on us to take him outside on a regular basis. It took him time to adjust to our touches and cuddles. But, as he got to know us, he got know that we would take him outside regularly and that when we pulled him across the bed in the morning, it was just so we could cuddle him extra close before we got up for the day. In short, he trusts us and can relax around us, and that has paved the way for the super-snuggly relationship that we have. Sometimes I find myself being more consistently gentle and tender with Rhino than I am with my husband --- sometimes I won't be the best listener or I won't say the kindest thing. But, more than anything, I want to have a husband who trusts me and can relax around me. I want him to know that I will always listen and that I will always try to be gentle and meet his needs as best I can.  That is a trust that is earned over years of small acts of gentleness and kindness. I'm fairly certain that I will never perfect this kind of trustworthiness, but I'm working on it. 

Go All-In

One of the best things about Rhino is that he is a "yes" dog. I don't mean that he's super obedient (we're working on that one....kind of...), but rather that whenever I approach him to snuggle or play, he says "yes." He's all-in and seemingly up for whatever it is that I want to do. I like to think that this is because he likes to spend time with me. My husband and I have many things in common, but sometimes our leisure-time preferences can be polar-opposites of one another. Sadly, when it comes to spending time together, my husband is more of a "yes" spouse than I am. He watched all 10 seasons of "Friends" with me because it's a show I loved, has gone to restaurants that wouldn't be his choice because I wanted to try it, and even brought home Rhino before he thought we should have a dog because I so desperately wanted one (some day I'll share the story of how Rhino came into our family). I, on the other hand, could be better at going all-in with things my husband loves to do (like listening to country music, going on long walks and seeing movies where people/things are blowing up). So, I hope that in the years to come I become more of a "yes" wife, because I imagine a marriage of two all-in "yes" spouses would be an awesome thing. 

So, there you have it --- love lessons from my Rhinoceros. Have a snuggly day, friends!

I'm Retiring "Bridezilla"

My husband and I were at a party recently, and I found myself in a group of people I had never met before. Pleasantries were exchanged, and the conversation turned to work. Someone asked what I do, and I told her that I’m a wedding planner.

“Have you had any Bridezillas yet?!,” she asked with a curious, knowing grin. “I bet you have some crazy stories to tell.”

“I haven’t, actually. I guess I’m just lucky!” I shrug, excuse myself and move onto another conversation.

This kind of exchange is very common in my life --- nine times out of ten, it’s the first thing people ask me when the learn what I do for a living. I should probably have a better answer for them by now.

I got curious awhile ago about the term “Bridezilla.” I knew that the term existed well before the “reality” show of the same name, but I didn’t know where it came from. So I started researching, and discovered that the first recorded use of the term “Bridezilla” was in 1995 in The Boston Globe. In “Tacky Trips Down the Aisle,” Diane White interviewed author Martha Woodham about what not to do while planning a wedding, and how to avoid “etiquette blunders.” The most surprising thing about the article for me was not the things the Woodham noted as “etiquette blunders” (like having a cash bar, or printing gift information on the invitations), but that when she introduced the term “Bridezilla,” she indicated that the term was coined by wedding planners to describe their most difficult brides. Fast forward 25 years to 2019, and I find myself planning weddings at a time where when the general public hears “wedding planner,” they immediately think “Bridezillas.”

Personally, I find this troubling. When I got married eight years ago, I was terrified of being labeled a “Bridezilla,” so much so that I refused to share the burden of wedding planning with anyone else. Spoiler alert: that didn’t end well. Now as a wedding planner, I work with so many couples who fear this label being assigned to them if they ever dare to share a negative feeling or opinion about something to do with their wedding.

I think it’s time that we throw “Bridezilla” overboard --- the label, that is. Here is why:

It’s Dehumanizing

“Godzilla,” the fictional creature on whom the name “Bridezilla” is based, is a destructive sea monster powered by nuclear radiation. So, when we refer to a person as a “Bridezilla,” we dehumanize her. We strip her of her relatable, human qualities and condense her down into an animalistic shell, unworthy of our empathy and the subject of our judgment. I think it’s safe to say that simplified and inhuman views of people are 1) never helpful and 2) never the whole story. We can do better in 2019.

It’s Sexist & Outdated

The term “Bridezilla” was coined to be about women, and not so surprisingly, it had no male counterpart.

Beyond the fact that “Bridezilla” is a derogatory term targeted at women, it is also sexist in that it represents how our culture generally views weddings as the responsibility primarily of the bride. Wedding vendors often joke about how the groom “just shows up” or that he’s “just in charge of the music.” In short, the message is that the bride plans the wedding, and the groom is just along for the ride. I find this attitude rather antiquated and not at all representative of the couples I have the pleasure of working with every day. Not all women care deeply about planning a wedding, and many men do care deeply about planning a wedding --- and that’s awesome! Every couple is different, and therefore every wedding should be different. Labels like “Bridezilla” discourage couples from finding their own planning style as a pair.

Furthermore, the term “Bridezilla” was coined in 1995, when same-sex marriage was not yet legal. Given the fact that the world of marriage and weddings is finally more diverse and inclusive, it’s time to get rid of terminology that is outdated and non-inclusive. Once again, we can do better in 2019.

It’s Unhelpful

Perhaps my greatest issue with the word “Bridezilla” is that it is enormously unhelpful. Kelsey McKinney wrote a great piece about this in The New York Times, stating that today’s brides are expected to throw a perfectly coordinated, aesthetically and crowd-pleasing wedding “that appear[s] to have occurred miraculously, with zero effort or emotional output on the part of the bride.” In short, brides are expected to impress everyone, but not let anyone see the effort they put in. And how does a bride hide the effort involved in planning a wedding? By doing it all by herself.

I have spent so many hours granting my couples permission to care, permission to express their stress and anxiety, and permission to have an opinion. The looming threat of being labeled a “Bridezilla” has scared so many brides (and grooms) into silence about the things that matter to them and the things that are causing them anxiety. It’s time to lift that threat, and expose this label for what it is: a useless and harmful social construct.

So What Now?

Today, I am making a commitment to be a part of the end of the “Bridezilla” label. The next time someone asks me “if I’ve worked with any Bridezillas,” I’ll explain why I don’t believe in the term anymore and why I’m hoping others will follow suit. If I hear another wedding vendor refer to a client as a “Bridezilla,” I’ll challenge her to reconsider her terminology. If a client refers to herself as “a Bridezilla,” or says “not to be a Bridezilla, but…,” I will stop her and tell her it is OK to have an honest opinion.

If wedding planners created this mess, we can be a part of cleaning it up. Will you join me in dismantling the power of this label? I hope you will.

Brand Refresh: Canvas Weddings is Back

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Late last year, I decided to “officially” reopen Canvas Weddings. To celebrate this comeback, I wanted to do something to mark the decision in time and also represent the growth, thought and love behind my decision to return full-time to wedding planning. A brand “refresh” was just the thing.

I have long been a fan of Esther Clark —- I’ve bought her gorgeous floral print calendars and stalked her Instagram feed, dreaming of the day one of my clients would hire her to make their wedding stationery. So when it came time to place Canvas Weddings in the hands of a designer, I knew who I wanted to work with.

I wanted a design that was warm, inviting and mature —- something that reflected both the beauty and the wildness of my favorite couples, as well as the steadiness and calm I bring to my work.

Whatever expectations I had going into my time working with Esther, she exceeded them at every turn. I can honestly say that Esther not only gave Canvas Weddings a fresh, updated and seriously stylish new look, but she also gave me renewed clarity and focus as a business owner through her insightful questions and spot-on instincts.

So, there you have it: Canvas Weddings’ new look. I can’t think of a better way to say “hello wedding world, I’ve missed you. It feels so, so good to be back.”

Thank you, Esther, for your partnership, patience and artistry. I am eternally grateful.

Editorial Shoot: Grecian Goddess Wedding Inspiration

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I have always been fascinated by Greek mythology, and particularly with Aphrodite, the goddess of love, beauty and pleasure. So many mythological deities have seemingly one-dimensional personality traits or skills --- but not Aphrodite. She was said to be beautiful and infinitely desirable, as she was born of a god and the sea, but she was also a warrior, a schemer and a savior. This duality was ultimately the inspiration behind this shoot --- Aphrodite is beautiful, soft and graceful, but she is also powerful and strong. We wanted this shoot to celebrate the strength and beauty of women --- which is why we chose to place three women at the center of this imagined wedding universe.

For this shoot we took or cues from Renaissance art of Greek mythology when determining our color palette --- lush greens, delicate blush, champagnes, ivories and hints of gold. We wanted the colors to evoke the decadence of Greek mythology as well as the obvious reverence for nature in their worship practices. This we achieved by combined lush and bountiful greenery and blooms with light gold leafing in the bouquets, table garland and ceremony arrangements.

All other details, from the lace robe to the dynamic hairstyles, dramatic ceremony draping and the lush draped chairs were inspired by the duality of Aphrodite’s softness and her strength.

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Planning + Design: Canvas Weddings | Photography: Willow + Stone Photography | Floral Design: Alluring Blooms | Bridal Gowns + Veils: Brandi’s Bridal Galleria | Cake: Bloom Bake Shop | Paper Products: Sugar River Stationers | Rentals: A La Crate Vintage Rentals, Event Essentials | Hair: Sevva Salon | Cake: Bloom Bake Shop | Models: The Rock Agency

Real Canvas Wedding: Lindsay + Zach

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Even if you had never met Lindsay and Zach, if you experienced their wedding day, you would have a great idea of who they are as a couple: fun, inviting and endlessly stylish. Their wedding featured delicious food, gorgeous flowers, high-energy dancing, and sweet country-chic touches all over. I loved this day, and I love this couple.

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Planning + Design: Canvas Weddings | Photography: Tim Tab Studios | Rentals: Event Essentials | Signage + Rentals: A La Crate Vintage Rentals | Florals: Flora by Jamae

So You Want To Be A Wedding Planner?

Me driving my sweet bride Emily around on her wedding day. Photo by    Ramblefree Photo Co   .

Me driving my sweet bride Emily around on her wedding day. Photo by Ramblefree Photo Co.

Lately I've been getting a lot of emails and phone calls from students and aspiring wedding planners looking to gain knowledge and experience in the wedding planning field. I've met many of these people over coffee, and some have even shadowed me or worked as a wedding day assistant at a wedding or two. What all of these people have in common is excitement about the industry, which I completely understand. It's such a fun world to work in between the cake tastings, flower consultations, hours on Pinterest and ultimately attending weekly parties all summer.

Enthusiasm is a good place to start (that's what got me started at the beginning of my career), but over time and through trial, error and countless weddings, I've learned that being a wedding planner takes a lot more than a love for weddings. While I am not the perfect embodiment of these qualities (we're all human), here are six traits that I believe any person seriously interested in the field of wedding planning should have and/or be working on:

1. Be Easy to Reach.

Almost more than any other thing you can do for your clients, few things will instill more confidence and trust in you as their planner than being in regular, timely communication with them. Brides need to know that a) you care about their wedding b) you're on top of things and c) you'll be there when/if they need you. So, if you are not willing and able to log many, many hours on email and the phone, this may not be in the industry for you.

2. Be Consistent.

Be consistent. Another important ingredient for success in wedding planning is consistency --- showing up on time to meetings, canceling engagements only in emergency scenarios, and doing what you say you'll do. I'll admit, when I was just getting out of college, I was a bit flaky --- I would sometimes cancel plans with friends or forget to put things on my calendar. At that time, I was not ready to be a wedding planner --- I didn't have the follow-through or the ability to take 100% ownership of my work. Fortunately, the years have taught me valuable lessons in the importance of consistency and follow-through that prepared me for my work in wedding planning. If you are thinking about becoming a wedding planner, take an honest look at your lifestyle --- do you show up on time? Do you cancel plans? Do you meet deadlines? If not, this may not be the industry for you.

3. Be Organized.

Organization is hard work, and it's taken me years to streamline how I organize emails, contracts and contact information. It's often tedious work, but 100% necessary to deliver the quality work that weddings demand. My husband can tell you that our apartment is not always neat and tidy, but my email inbox always is. So, before you venture into wedding planning, take a look at your email inbox and determine if you are willing to master the organization that will ultimately be required of you.  

Me with Brittany + Vince after their ceremony. Photo by    Evan Hunt   .

Me with Brittany + Vince after their ceremony. Photo by Evan Hunt.

4. Be Willing to Get Your Hands Dirty.

While a great deal of wedding planning is dealing with beautiful things like wedding gowns, flowers and table linens, at times the job is not so glamorous. A lot of sweat goes into a wedding day --- I am often lifting and moving furniture, hanging decorations, and much more. By the end of a wedding day, I'm usually a sweaty mess --- and not from dancing. Also, some parts of this job can be downright dirty --- I once had to slap some garbage bags over my arms and unclog a port-a-potty trailer because of a hose malfunction. And sometimes, the wedding planner needs to be the person to tell an unruly wedding guest to get their act together on behalf of the bride and groom. Glamorous? Certainly not. But someone's gotta do the dirty work on the wedding day, and if you're not willing to take on some dirty work, wedding planning may not be for you. 

5. Be Loyal.

Both clients and other vendors in the industry need to know that the wedding planner has their back at all times. A planner should be a person who builds up the work and ideas of others instead of tearing them down. Nothing pains me more than hearing wedding professionals say negative things about a client or another wedding vendor. Trust me --- wedding world is small, and talk gets around and hurts people. If you want to be a wedding planner, do yourself, your clients and vendor buddies a favor and adopt a no-bashing policy. 

Me working on Erin’s Dress Bustle on her wedding day. Photo by    Britta Marie Photography   .

Me working on Erin’s Dress Bustle on her wedding day. Photo by Britta Marie Photography.

6. Be In Love With It.

Wedding planning is without a doubt the hardest work I have ever done, but it has also been the most rewarding work I have ever done. The blood, sweat and tears involved in working in this industry pale in comparison to the joy it brings you if you love it --- but only if you love it. Test the waters, shadow some planners and some wedding professionals and look for traces of joy you get from the work. If you find  that you don't love it --- that's fine. But if you do --- go for it. Fewer things are more attractive to an engaged couple than a wedding vendor who is in love with her work.

I love this work and hope to encourage many more like-minded people to get their hands dirty in the beautiful world of wedding planning. Interested in feeling out the industry? Email me. I'm always looking to add names to my day-of assistant list as wedding season draws near. 

Cheers,
Corinne